I grew up in a small town (750) where every adult was my parent.
The adults supported us young people when we competed in academics, sports, music, etc.
They also reprimanded us when we erred and reported our misbehavior to our parents.
It worked because there was a sense of community values. I believe this still is the best environment for youngsters to grow up in.
I’d like to see Newton adopt a program that would involve the schools, churches, law enforcement, social organizations and any individuals interested in improving the environment for our young people.
Teens want to grow up fast, little realizing they haven’t the maturity to make wise decisions all the time.
We could begin by defining what it means to be “grown up.” What characteristics must we have to be called a “man” or “woman”? What behaviors are unacceptable or acceptable?
We assume our teens know the answers to these questions but, in reality, many so-called adults do not understand the meaning. We need to clarify these words and discuss what behaviors we must have if we are to be considered an adult.
Teens need positive role models, so we all need to set good examples for them.
Topeka followed the “Character Counts” program and the ministerial alliance sponsored it, but Newton could write their own program.
What we need is a group of leaders to design a program, provide programs for schools, churches, organizations. Newton is an ideal town to take on such a project as there are so many concerned people who volunteer every day to help those in need.
If I were still teaching, I’d have my students, whatever age, write essays on what characteristics are needed to earn the title “man” or “woman.” What we need is an organization or an individual willing to lead representatives of all organizations to provide a program in which positive values are our goal.
I feel depressed when I read a headline that says “Young man sentenced to life for murder or rape or some other violent behavior.” I believe it should read “Young male” — because violence is not a characteristic of a real man.
— Wanda Christy,
Newton
